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| MEDICAL STAFF COPES WITH A LOSS EVENT |
| Japanese
obstetricians and midwifes say and do for mother and
family in grief |
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gYour baby wanted
to come for stay in your belly.h gI just keep doing the same routine and care on mother in regular way.h gYou can cry, do not hesitate front of me. The baby is so cute, has got eyes the same as yours.h gDonft try to stay
strong, if you want to say something – just say
it.h gBaby came here for tell you something by sacrificing itself. Donft blame on you.h gIt takes time to accept your loss.
You will never forget about it.h gI introduce the book gMemory inside of
wombh by Ikegawa Akira. Usually wait until she
start to speak, then gI cry together with mothers and keep kindness.h |
| Japanese obstetricians and midwifes believes about a death and perinatal loss |
gNormally people think
the baby will be born in good condition, so stillbirth
is big shock for mother and
family.h
gAny birth even tragic one has meaning. There are some reasons to be born in this way.h
gBefore I was thinking it hard, now I think there is some meaning of stillbirth.h
gDeath
is not the end. There are two side of this: 1) person
who died, and 2) people who were remembered and
mentioned about the dead person, then they also
died.h
gThere are some of meanings in any lives. A baby cannot say
anything, but its appearance is the mission.
People
around baby have to keep memory about baby.h
gIfm afraid to work because have small experience.h